You're curious about adult-films (hereafter called "porn") but you're intimidated and embarrassed by the process of obtaining them.  You've either never seen a porno movie, or you've never seen a porno movie you liked.  You've never seen a male porn star that's worth looking at.  You are not alone.  I was just like you.  I had a healthy imagination and enjoyed reading erotica.  I wanted to see that erotica played out in all its visual glory.  I was embarrassed to enter the "adult section" of my regular video store, and I was intimidated by the specialty stores.  When I made myself enter one of these hellholes, I usually emerged empty-handed and repulsed.  I've been there.  I've done that.  You don't have to go through that.  I am here to guide you.

Thank God for the Internet.  Because the necessary social changes are at least a couple generations away, women must endure embarrassment and fear when we enter a physical store that sells porno movies.  If we can brave that, we still have the horror of trying to find anything decent among the thousands of hideous titles on the shelves.  The Internet eliminates all of that.  It provides anonymity, information, easy searching, and massive selection.  You can subscribe to a Netflix-style disc rental service, you can buy DVDs, you can download videos on demand--all in the privacy of your own home.

I've navigated the minefield that is "adult" Internet.  I can point out my mistakes, and guide you toward good information on the web.  I can tell you what to expect when you visit an online porn store.  I can help you understand the lingo used in reviews.  I can tell you what today's porno movies are like.  And I can profile male performers so you know their sexual styles when you see their names in a cast.  Straight professional porn is all about the men.  Once you know the guys, and once you know the genres, you're 90% there.

Cock Fucks Pussy

Shocked?  If so, you're not ready for porn.  First, you can't avoid these words--and worse.  Second, this is hardcore explicit sex, not romance.  Third, they're just words.  Say them with me.  "Cock... Fucks... Pussy."  Very good!  Now say that over and over again until you no longer blush.  Then you'll be ready to start your journey of porn discovery.

Note to Women that Live With Men

I highly recommend that you share your porn adventures with your man.  Unless you get off on feeling guilty, just bring the whole thing out in the open.  Just tell him that you're curious about adult movies, and that you're going to try finding something that appeals to you.  Tell him that you might, or might not, watch your discoveries with him, but you sure would appreciate his guidance whenever you need it.  A secure man will be thrilled to hear this; rolling up his sleeves and rubbing his hands with enthusiasm.  An insecure man might need to be finessed.  If you absolutely couldn't possibly, ever in a million years broach this subject with your man, I recommend finding another man or giving up on porn now.  You do not want to ruin a relationship over this. 

You just have to know your personal definition of good straight porn, and how to find it.